Me and my sister had an argument surrounding my daughter

My sister (24) is an instagram influencer with around 8 thousand followers. She posts days in the life and food reviews.

When I had my baby girl I told the family that I planned on posting no photos of her on my facebook or social media besides one private instagram account. My entire family follows this instagram account and I use it to update on stuff I’m doing and to post photos of my daughter without strangers having access to the photos.

I decided to do this after my friend posted a video of her daughter at the pools and it got way to many saves and a bunch of older men liked it, I decided to keep my daughter away from social media after that incident.

My sister did a “day in the life” video with our family and posted multiple shots of my daughter in her togs and eating ice cream. One of the clips is of my daughter with ice cream running down her face.

I asked my sister to remove the clips of my daughter or just delete the video and she has refused. She has always said my rules around my daughter is stupid and she plans on doing the exact opposite when she eventually has kids.

Due to this I’ve told her she can’t come around until she apologises and deletes the clips.

Mum thinks I’m overreacting but I don’t understand why she needed to film my daughter when I’ve made it clear that I don’t want my daughter filmed. If you cut out my daughter’s clips the video wouldn’t change.